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Techniques for getting the most out of anal intercourse

The clitoris is stimulated up until climax but no longer

Some men want a lover to provide a response to intercourse

Sexual pleasuring techniques a man may enjoy

Women mature sexually much later than men tend to

Women offer sex as an emotional bonding mechanism

Sexual pleasuring techniques a woman may enjoy

Women do not experience easy erotic arousal with a lover

For women, sexual attraction does not include erotic arousal

Bringing variety of situation and technique to intercourse

Women’s ability to engage in sex is not limited by orgasm

Responsive women use surreal fantasy to generate arousal

Women’s need for affection drives regular relationship sex

Women have sex for emotional (rather than erotic) reasons

Male arousal is acute but female arousal is subconscious

Some men expect women to make sex exciting for them

Women have more reason to invest in a loving relationship

The penis is an external organ but the clitoris is internal

Women’s talk of orgasm does not lead to more sex for...

A woman may offer intercourse when she feels appreciated

Women are sexually passive due to lack of erotic arousal

Showing sexual initiative and providing erotic feedback

The female mind responds to many fewer erotic turn-ons

Only men are aroused in anticipation of sexual activity

Married men have sex more often than single men do

Men enjoy penetration and thrusting more than orgasm

Only men are aroused by observing a partner’s genitals

A woman may offer intercourse when she feels respected

Intercourse is a demonstration of male virility and potency

Men obtain an optimal sexual release from penetrative sex

Regularity of intercourse relies on male responsiveness

Men want more sex than is required for reproduction

Orgasm is a vital aspect of male reproductive function

Proposing and planning sex sessions, providing sex talk

Our biological motivation to engage in loving relationships

Differences between male and female responsiveness

Sexual techniques and exploring sex play with a lover

Emotional bonding: women are unresponsive by design

Both sexes enjoy emotional rewards from sexual intimacy

My personal story

Women are aroused by fantasy, not real-world turn-ons

Orgasm is not a vital aspect of women’s sexuality

Male and female sexuality both contribute to reproduction

Women’s arousal depends on a more indirect mechanism

Some women masturbate without aiming for orgasm

Orgasm is not the goal of sexual activity with a lover

Female arousal is more deeply buried in the subconscious

The clitoris is the one and only female erectile sex organ

Orgasm comes at the end of activity intended to achieve it

Understanding what works: erotic versus emotional stimuli

The sexual anatomy involved in women achieving orgasm

Stimulation and a focus on eroticism continue until orgasm

Relatively few women ever use a vibrator to masturbate

Women’s erotic fantasies have a psychological context

Stimulation that leads to orgasm is applied instinctively

The G-spot explains the orgasms women think they have

Arousal mechanisms are not unique to one lover

Orgasm is achieved by massaging the corpora cavernosa

Only some women think they orgasm through intercourse

Orgasm depends on a positive response to eroticism

The same organ, the erectile phallus, is involved in orgasm

Understanding what works: the clitoris versus the vagina

The quality aspects of orgasm rely on erotic turn-ons

Orgasm involves identifying with the penetrating male

Bisexuality indicates an ambivalence over a lover’s gender

Women’s sexual responses do not need to be sociable

Orgasm is a one-off release followed by a recovery period

Female sexuality involves attracting male sexual attention

Responsive women use fantasy to achieve arousal alone

The mind responds to erotic stimuli: concepts or objects

Men’s sexual knowledge is acquired from pornography

Women do not masturbate as a substitute for intercourse

Reproduction: the role of heterosexual intercourse

Mental arousal must always precede physical stimulation

An evidence-based approach to researching sexuality

The symbiotic relationship between men and women

Female sexuality is defined by men and their fantasies

Women deserve an unbiased account of their sexuality

Women only need to be amenable to offering intercourse

Sex information must explain real women’s behaviours

Women respond to real-world erotic triggers as men do

Our biological motivation to enjoy arousal and orgasm

Female sexuality – a more realistic perspective

Women may use behaviours to provide turn-ons for a lover

Similarities between male and female responsiveness

Understanding women’s sexual and emotional needs

The male arousal cycle from erection to ejaculation

Sexologists need to challenge what they are told

Sexology should present research not popular beliefs

Sexual pleasure: how responsive women reach orgasm

Women depend on a lover to stimulate them to orgasm

Men may get more sex if they are willing to be...

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Women substitute sexual behaviours for responsiveness

The function of foreplay is to assist with female arousal

Many men prefer intercourse and never offer any foreplay

Intercourse stimulates only the penetrator’s sex organ

Women are proactive lovers due to their own arousal

Some men hope that sexual pleasuring can be mutual

Confusion over anatomy only arises with a male lover

Women are constantly aroused and orgasmic with a lover

The conscious and subconscious components of sexuality

The sexual anatomy involved in heterosexual intercourse

Women orgasm from clitoral stimulation (cunnilingus)

Heterosexual relationships involve mismatched sex drives

Most women prefer implicit explanations for their orgasms

Women orgasm from vaginal stimulation (intercourse)

Masturbation and fantasy require a creative imagination

Women’s sexuality includes providing male erotic turn-ons

Women can masturbate themselves to orgasm with a lover

Boys who are adolescent first have the highest sex drive

Men pressure women to provide a response to intercourse

Women masturbate as commonly and as frequently as men

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Age is the foremost factor affecting male responsiveness

Women are not spontaneously aroused as men tend to be

Women are driven to engage in intercourse just as men are

We all carry the potential to be homosexual in our genes

Women assume that they should orgasm with a lover

Women experience arousal and orgasm as easily as men do

Women take on all the key disadvantages of intercourse

Women have the exact same sexual needs that men have

Male adolescence: differentiating orgasm from ejaculation

Our biological motivation to engage in vaginal intercourse

Identifying the erroneous assumptions about sexuality

Understanding men’s sexual and emotional needs

Masturbation and fantasy require a creative imagination