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Confusion over anatomy only arises with a male lover
Women are constantly aroused and orgasmic with a lover
The conscious and subconscious components of sexuality
The sexual anatomy involved in heterosexual intercourse
Women orgasm from clitoral stimulation (cunnilingus)
Heterosexual relationships involve mismatched sex drives
Most women prefer implicit explanations for their orgasms
Women orgasm from vaginal stimulation (intercourse)
Masturbation and fantasy require a creative imagination
Women’s sexuality includes providing male erotic turn-ons
Women can masturbate themselves to orgasm with a lover
Boys who are adolescent first have the highest sex drive
Men pressure women to provide a response to intercourse
Women masturbate as commonly and as frequently as men
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Age is the foremost factor affecting male responsiveness
Women are not spontaneously aroused as men tend to be
Women are driven to engage in intercourse just as men are
We all carry the potential to be homosexual in our genes
Women assume that they should orgasm with a lover
Women experience arousal and orgasm as easily as men do
The symbiotic relationship between men and women
Women only need to be amenable to offering intercourse
Women respond to real-world erotic triggers as men do
The male arousal cycle from erection to ejaculation
Women take on all the key disadvantages of intercourse
Women have the exact same sexual needs that men have
Male adolescence: differentiating orgasm from ejaculation
Our biological motivation to engage in vaginal intercourse
Identifying the erroneous assumptions about sexuality
Understanding men’s sexual and emotional needs
Reproduction: the role of heterosexual intercourse
An evidence-based approach to researching sexuality
Sex information must explain real women’s behaviours
Female sexuality – a more realistic perspective
Sexologists need to challenge what they are told
Sexology should present research not popular beliefs
Women deserve an unbiased account of their sexuality
Women may use behaviours to provide turn-ons for a lover
Techniques for getting the most out of anal intercourse
The clitoris is stimulated up until climax but no longer
Some men want a lover to provide a response to intercourse
Sexual pleasuring techniques a man may enjoy
Women mature sexually much later than men tend to
Women offer sex as an emotional bonding mechanism
Sexual pleasuring techniques a woman may enjoy
Women do not experience easy erotic arousal with a lover
For women, sexual attraction does not include erotic arousal
Bringing variety of situation and technique to intercourse
Women’s ability to engage in sex is not limited by orgasm
Responsive women use surreal fantasy to generate arousal
Women’s need for affection drives regular relationship sex
Women have sex for emotional (rather than erotic) reasons
Male arousal is acute but female arousal is subconscious
Some men expect women to make sex exciting for them
Women have more reason to invest in a loving relationship
The penis is an external organ but the clitoris is internal
Women’s talk of orgasm does not lead to more sex for...
A woman may offer intercourse when she feels appreciated
Women are sexually passive due to lack of erotic arousal
Showing sexual initiative and providing erotic feedback
The female mind responds to many fewer erotic turn-ons
Only men are aroused in anticipation of sexual activity
Married men have sex more often than single men do
Men enjoy penetration and thrusting more than orgasm
Only men are aroused by observing a partner’s genitals
A woman may offer intercourse when she feels respected
Intercourse is a demonstration of male virility and potency
Men obtain an optimal sexual release from penetrative sex
Regularity of intercourse relies on male responsiveness
Men want more sex than is required for reproduction
Orgasm is a vital aspect of male reproductive function
Proposing and planning sex sessions, providing sex talk
Our biological motivation to engage in loving relationships
Differences between male and female responsiveness
Sexual techniques and exploring sex play with a lover
Emotional bonding: women are unresponsive by design
Both sexes enjoy emotional rewards from sexual intimacy
My personal story
Women are aroused by fantasy, not real-world turn-ons
Orgasm is not a vital aspect of women’s sexuality
Male and female sexuality both contribute to reproduction
Women’s arousal depends on a more indirect mechanism
Some women masturbate without aiming for orgasm
Orgasm is not the goal of sexual activity with a lover
Female arousal is more deeply buried in the subconscious
The clitoris is the one and only female erectile sex organ
Orgasm comes at the end of activity intended to achieve it
Understanding what works: erotic versus emotional stimuli
The sexual anatomy involved in women achieving orgasm
Stimulation and a focus on eroticism continue until orgasm
Relatively few women ever use a vibrator to masturbate
Women’s erotic fantasies have a psychological context
Stimulation that leads to orgasm is applied instinctively
The G-spot explains the orgasms women think they have
Arousal mechanisms are not unique to one lover
Orgasm is achieved by massaging the corpora cavernosa
Only some women think they orgasm through intercourse
Orgasm depends on a positive response to eroticism
The same organ, the erectile phallus, is involved in orgasm
Understanding what works: the clitoris versus the vagina
The quality aspects of orgasm rely on erotic turn-ons
Orgasm involves identifying with the penetrating male
Bisexuality indicates an ambivalence over a lover’s gender
Women’s sexual responses do not need to be sociable
Orgasm is a one-off release followed by a recovery period
Female sexuality involves attracting male sexual attention
Responsive women use fantasy to achieve arousal alone
The mind responds to erotic stimuli: concepts or objects
Men’s sexual knowledge is acquired from pornography
Women do not masturbate as a substitute for intercourse
Mental arousal must always precede physical stimulation
Female sexuality is defined by men and their fantasies
Our biological motivation to enjoy arousal and orgasm
Similarities between male and female responsiveness
Understanding women’s sexual and emotional needs
Sexual pleasure: how responsive women reach orgasm
Women depend on a lover to stimulate them to orgasm
Men may get more sex if they are willing to be...
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Women substitute sexual behaviours for responsiveness
The function of foreplay is to assist with female arousal
Many men prefer intercourse and never offer any foreplay
Intercourse stimulates only the penetrator’s sex organ
Women are proactive lovers due to their own arousal
Some men hope that sexual pleasuring can be mutual
Masturbation and fantasy require a creative imagination